They said I held such promise
Five years old, my first violin concert
I wore that dress with red and white stripes
Skittered notes across my strings
And moved my bow in circles reaching higher than my eyebrows
Like a breath at the end of every line
My parents said I had a ‘concentrating lip’
Pouting, thinking hard about the task
My concentration showed such promise,
they said
He said I held such promise
Right before his hand traced down my back
And there, in the boss’ office, I smiled
I couldn’t quit yet, but I would leave
In my own time, on my own terms
But not before it set in motion
A thought that grew inside my head
if success was down to me
or was just my face, my legs, my dress
that showed such promise
She said I held such promise
She was a writer and offered to help
I was never enough on my own, I knew
So I said gracious words in answer
Yes, please, fix me
I tore my heart out and then found she wanted another story told
Not the one in my mind
Not the one in my heart
It wasn’t my promise she was seeking,
but her own
‘You don’t need to hold such promise’,
I say out loud as my back slides down the wall
And I end up on the floor
Head in hands, reciting over and over
the endless words that spill off my tongue
to convince myself
That maybe we have value
regardless of our promise
And I tell myself: ‘You are not broken,
You’re enough, I promise.’